I'm sorry this whole thing caused a problem for you. I never meant to get you in trouble. If we can't be friends anymore, it makes me sad, but I understand.

However, I feel the way you treated Bev and I was unfair. It was wrong of you to tell me things about her that were untrue. Especially since you know I've struggled with being the child of an alcoholic household. I can't fathom what you were thinking when you did that. I am willing to forgive you, but an apology would go a long way towards making that happen sooner.

I used to wonder why so many people picked on you. You seem so nice on the surface. I think I'm beginning to understand now. You are a difficult person to trust, and trust is the basis of any friendship. Please give that some thought. Enjoy the rest of your night.